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CA · San Diego County · Family estate-planning guide

Estate planning in San Diego, CA

California rules apply — but San Diego's military families bring federal estate planning complexity.

Why this matters in San Diego

The local angle

Standard California estate-planning rules apply, but San Diego's heavy military population brings VA benefits, SBP (Survivor Benefit Plan), and DIC into the planning conversation. Federal-tax-exempt military retirement also changes the basis math on inherited assets.

Local nuance

Active-duty service members can update beneficiary designations through DEERS at any base — but few realize that the SBP election is irrevocable after retirement. That's a high-stakes decision most families don't plan for.

Top concerns for San Diego families

  • SBP / DIC for military families
  • Veteran's estate exemptions
  • California real estate basis + Prop 19
  • Multi-state moves common with military service

California state law

At a glance

San Diego estate work is governed by California state law. Here's what every family should know.

Probate timeline
9–18 months typical, often longer

Statutory fees: 4% of first $100K, 3% next $100K, 2% next $800K, 1% over $1M

Small estate
Under $184,500 (indexed)

Small-estate affidavit (Prob. Code §13100)

Estate / inheritance tax
No estate tax

No inheritance tax

Spousal rights

Community property state — spouse owns 50% of community assets automatically

Common pitfalls

  • CA probate is notoriously slow and expensive — statutory fees apply
  • CA Prop 19 (2021) changed property tax transfer rules dramatically
  • Heggstad petition can be used for property left out of trust

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